Limiting Belief – I’m Not Good Enough to Be Loved

Pathway Description:

There are two kinds of love. Egoic love is based on perceived value and really is a form of like. Whole-minded Love is of the Spirit. It is for that which doesn’t change — ever–. Good enough is about like. It has nothing to do with Love.

Clearing Steps:

• Image yourself as a child in a moment of fear or concern. (If you are not good at working with inner or outer children do the following process with an animal or a person you feel caring for. Just substitute when you see the word “child.”)
• Separate yourself from the child so that you can see or feel the child but not be the child. Get far enough away so that you can feel caring for that which you observe. You may still feel the feelings of that which you observe but recognize that the feelings are not of you even if you feel them (we call this empathizing)
• Let the caring flow through you to the child. If there is a good feeling in the caring without any need for a return from the child then Whole-minded or unconditional Love is flowing through you. This is the God energy that does the healing.
• Now, as you experience caring/Love flow through you ask yourself the following questions. The answers will show you, from your own experience, the truth of Love.
• The caring/Love you feel, does it have an end? If not then you are experiencing what the masters call the timeless, the eternal.
• Could this love diminish if the child were less attractive?…less smart?…less successful?…not liked or untalented? What you may be feeling is that Love is not based on anything.
• So if this child (or animal or person) changed in anyway there would still be a stream of energy in your mind that Loves no matter what.
• So, now, answer this question: does the child have to be good enough to be loved? Does good enough have anything to do with Love? I open to the realization that Love is for that which doesn’t change. That Love is not like. That Love is its own reward. I open to the experience that Love flows through me for all of creation and that I am the witness of this Love and the beneficiary.